When we lived out at the ranch, nearly two hours from pavement, I got into the habit of not venturing into civilization more than twice a year. That inclination remains. Mind you, I never was one for venturing out 'just because', especially in winter. I never truly needed the company of others to satisfy some longing, some void. When I met Terry, we became a partnership of two with the same social needs. Not that we both didn't enjoy our time out with others immensely, it was just that neither of us felt driven to indulge on a regular basis. Now that I am on my own again, that lifestyle has not changed - to the consternation of some. But it is a pleasant state of contentment which is suitable and advantageous to anyone who wishes to relocate to the boonies. Neither of us needed outside contact to validate who we were or what we thought and felt. To find pleasure in your own thoughts and dreams and a joy in the immediate surroundings, no matter how simple and mundane, is a vital tool to succeed in your hinterland dreams. Who would you be without everyday conveniences so taken for granted? What do you really need? Would you be lost without your hairdryer or your convenient fast food stops? Who are you really if you lose your comfortable trappings and accessories to disaster? I'm not suggesting that you abandon your present niceties, just to think deeply, to consider the reality of who you really are if your comfortable world has been stripped away by tsunami of fate - your nice clothes, your lovely house, perhaps even your physical health and looks. Those who confront and make peace with these issues in advance will be better prepared to survive any future turmoil and be the ones with the more sound mind to lead their loved ones through adversity.
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I made a rare trip to the nearest podunk with a list of things and resources to procure. It was a fairly productive venture despite the near ghost town quality of the place. You can see my red Dakota on the right side of the thoroughfare, parked just down from the tallest building still standing in town. That building is the local bar and grill and I have taken a few visitors there when they wanted to go out for eats - a real cheeseburger plus fries and a beer for six bucks is hard to beat these days and the folks are all pleasant and friendly with plenty of amusing memorabilia on the walls to amuse yourself if you are eating alone, too. That's a real good thing lately..
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And this trip said it was a good time to investigate the statue which sits on the left side of the highway since I remembered to bring along the camera. I had seen this statue peripherally a few times before but it sat alone in a bare and neglected lot, largely hidden from view by stray pine trees. The form and style were hauntingly familiar..
It was a full-sized bronze statue of a horse and rider, quite impressive. The ever industrious ants of the desert had found a small fissure in the base casting and built a large entry mound right beneath the horse's feet. Why was this magnificent bronze lost in a shabby lot with an ugly pro-panel building as a back drop?.
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Remington - no wonder it looked so familiar! But who put it there, how long ago, what was the occasion? Surely the bar owners would know since they had been on that street corner forever. Well, sometimes your investigations end up in the lackluster back alley of revelation. The bar owner blandly noted "Yeah, the guy who owns the grocery store has lots of money, liked the statue, bought it, stuck it there on that empty lot." Just like that. My old inclination to get involved with restorations of things like houses, towns, critters and sometimes people just sort of evaporated on the spot. "I'll take the cheeseburger special then. Hold the green chili, sub the fries for onion rings, a cheap beer is fine." The dark-eyed waitress barely suppresses an eye roll of contempt at the green chili instructions but it is soothed by the extra buck for the onion ring substitution and the cheap beer. (this tale was drafted up shortly before the ulcer hit the fan).
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20 comments:
Those of us who are loners understand all too well your latest blog.
Appreciate the picture of town. It made me laugh at myself for asking if there was a Walgreens near you since in this neck of the woods they are known for being on just about every corner. So is there one at the other end of the block? Somehow I doubt it.
Judy
Thanks for the town pictures - what town is it? Looks like the kind of town we like to go to on vacations.
Me thinks the statue wouldn't be in a parking lot long around here since they take lawn decorations in certain areas. Several years back a neighbor next door had a black panther removed from his front yard.
Glad to know the onion rings were before ulcer discovery. You've got to mellow out on what you take in for awhile.
Love ya,
Sue
Oh, it's all relative, Judy, since the street corners can be a little far apart here at times. The good news is that there IS a Walgreen's near by, about 30 miles over. I haven't stopped in there since I haven't had the urge to buy lime green flip-flops and warm beer yet. I'm sure that time will come though.
You pretty much saw the commercial district in that photo. I was vaguely and briefly tempted by the empty old brick building shown behind the statue but I'm just not that young and ambitious (or foolish) any more.
Sue, it IS the kind of town you might pass through on vacation but not stay over in. Maybe stop in if you are out on a Harley. If it weren't for restless bikers, the bar probably would have closed up already.
I wondered myself why someone with a tow truck hadn't tried to haul the statue off for scrap. Then again, the state has a fairly active program to crack down on metal stealing so maybe even the most vile of scrap yard operators would think twice about accepting something so obvious as a large Remington bronze. One would hope.
Avoiding all the foods which I love has not been a pretty sight.
Love you guys, too!
Great post Lin....and I loves me some cheap(or any other kind as long as it real cold) BEER!
Couldn't help but notice how you parked directly under the streetlamp. Must've been planning for a night on the town---at least 'til the bar owner chilled all your interest, huh???
I'm with Judy... some of us understand exactly what you're on about in your first paragraph. But said understanding is through our own individual lens of perception, I should add. There are loners, and then there are LONERS... not to mention the downright anti-social.
The Remington struck me the right way, I think. While it seems SO appropriate for a one-horse (heh) New Mexico burg, the back-story is sufficiently weird enough to give one pause. Which all goes to prove one can find wonderful things nearly anywhere one looks, eh?
I think I'd like that bar, too. :D
Pat, you exorcised the Blogger demons finally - good to see you back!
Yep, I'm sort of a Will Rogers of beer myself - rarely met I beer I didn't like, even if it's warm. Extended camping trips and living off-the-grid got me used to warm beer and I decided that it actually has more body and flavor in that state - something to be said for those 'shelfers'.
Ah-hah-hah, Bruno, hadn't planned that at all, except to park away from any juiced up bar patrons. With that highway as encrusted with constabulary as it is, you won't find me out for more than one beer. But I like to keep the Dakota away from thoughtless people - you should see how I engineer parking in the big box lots. Nice surprise is that people in NM (so far) have proved to be far more vehicle respectful than anywhere else I have lived. But you do still get tourists off the I-state at the big box stores so why take a chance.
Buck, you nailed it again. While we were loners, we were hardly the ones to fit the classic neighbors' comments after some bizarre 'gone postal' moment. We both enjoyed the impromptu visits of strangers brought to Rat by outdated maps and terrible instructions. If they weren't trying to race the setting sun out of the canyons, we'd usually invite them in for a little sun shelter and a beer. I do miss those times immensely. sigh
Roaring kudos on the 'one horse' observation!!! Yep, that whole revelation was surreal in a very deflating sort of way but, yep again, you would get a big kick out of that bar. If you ever wander up this way, I will put it on the tour list. A great cheeseburger, too - they even let you stack on your own condiments)! I'll just take an extra uber-antacid before heading out is all because I am sure missing those burgers right about now.
You got to me with that first part, Lin.
I, too, learned at a not so tender age that the things we sometimes value are worth some sand and very little else.
There are no real possessions that own me now. Wild Thing just shakes her head and smiles when I give away something I've had for years to virtual strangers 'cause they admired it. Good thing she didn't have to put up with me a few some years back. (She'da had a cow.)
I am very familiar with that fickle tsunami of fate. It's been places where it should be ashamed to be.
If that's an authentic Frederick Remington, please don't broadcast the name of the town. Last one I looked at was well into seven figures. Be a shame to watch it disappear.
Take care, try to drink cold beer (this is, for the time being, still the U.S.A.), and never, ever pass up a good hamburger.
Cat, I guess Terry and I went through the big introduction to down-sizing just before we moved to NM. I later heard that there stories had formed at the nearest Good Will about people coming in and nearly fainting at some of our treasures that they had found there. Wild Thing would have had a coronary there that much sooner - so I can fully relate to what you're saying, BIG time. As long as the stuff was appreciated, we didn't mind. Just one instance was particularly insulting and hurtful to Terry - some folks are just clueless and unappreciative. I stopped being generous to them though and I fully sensed that Terry approved.
I am fully hoping that this statue is NOT an original but I didn't poke around for defining foundry marks, not with those darned ants crawling around everywhere. I have seen some other intriguing bronzes ten miles up the road that also have that same style to them. This will be my next investigation when I remember to bring the camera along. Stay tuned on this one - I'm not done yet with this Bronze;Aged adventure!
I prefer my own company too- I do not like crowds, loath social functions.
i prefer to be in a paddock, or on a walk or riding my bike by myself! So I understand completely!
I figured so, Simon, since the posts where you really shine from within are the ones where you are out hiking or biking alone in the wilderness, absorbing that undiluted energy.
I want to see that sometime. Sometimes the most amazing things are just under our nose.
Well, Brigid, don't delay your visit TOO long - show up while supplies last here!
Didn't see a place to comment on the other post... just want you to take it easy and do what you have to do... I'll be waiting for your return in July....
My calendar is marked for July 9. And I will brook no disappointments from you. Do you hear, young lady? None.
(Don't forget to have some fun, sweet Lin.)
Had to comment on the Turkey Story above....Turkeys, whether domesticated or wild(despite stories to the contrary) are not the smartest buggers on earth...it it amazing they can reproduce...but somehow they survive.
I think there are even tips how to keep the youngin' healthy on Google...see you July 9th Lin!
Yea, I liked the turkey story too. Sad, but that's nature. Lions eat their own all the friggin' time. Critters in Zoos don't know how good they have it.
And about cutting loose from all the material stuff... there's part of me that years to do just that. Being a military brat, drug around the world the way I was, I learned at an early age to build a nest. Not having a home, my nest became my home. So my stuff means a lot to me. Part of me thinks that I might never really evolve unless I ditch it all. Live simply. But the soft city boy in me thinks "Sheeeeiiiit, no way! I wants me the 50' flat screen!" It's a quandary.
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