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It's been one week now since Mark left us. His real name is Terry but when I started this blog, we were concerned about the weirdos and scumbags out there. Doesn't seem to matter as much any more. But we both had fun with it while it lasted and he always liked the name Mark. That was the point; to just have fun out here. Most of the wonderful folks we met over these past three years had 'nom de blog's and they were given the opportunity to choose the names they liked, too. Everyone seemed to enjoy that element of mischievousness. Try it yourself, you won't regret it. I'm not saying to ever do things which hurt other people because that is plain rude and selfish ... just have maximum harmless fun when you can. And laugh and make others laugh, as much as you can and while you are able because there are few other gifts as powerful and healing as laughter when times are not so good.
So many more twists and complications have developed in this last week but I am not yet able to write about them, not until some sense of closure comes home to our canyon. But soon Red will be here to help and comfort as he always has for so many.
Thank you, all of you, friends known and yet to be known, who stopped by to pay your respects and express a love and appreciation for Terry - we will not forget it. It has meant so much to all of us dealing with the loss of a great person and friend.
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I will be back - God willing and if the creek don't rise.
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Wednesday, July 16, 2008
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Lin, I can't tell you how relieved I was just now to read your post and know that Red is on the way. I have been so worried about you being alone. continuing to pray for you while you go through this difficult period of adjustment and ongoing "stuff". Love you ...
Thank you so much for the post regarding Terry's blog name, Mark. Though we weren't offended and knew he wasn't thrilled with the name Terry, we continued to wonder what the significance of Mark was. As you know, we are very, very concerned for you and are counting heavily on Red and Sally. They have been true friends and in our inability to reach you personally we are placing our trust in them.
Judy and Sue
Take care of yourself big sis. We're all cheerin' for ya and wishin' you the best. If you ever want to get away from there and flop somewhere, you've got my number. Consider yourself hugged, picked up and shook around, as only a big fat hairy bastard can do.
Good Luck Lin....all most of us can offer are prayers and heartfelt support. But hang in there, I'm sure that's how "Mark" would want it.
Red here. I have delayed commenting on the blog as we have talked often since Terry's passing. Of course, it was such a shock when Sally and I received your call. Sally couldn't stay on the phone as the tears were flowing like our monsoons, and after our call ended, me too. Terry was SUCH a decent guy! I had such respect and love for him, and of course, such a great friend, like you.
Fortunately, the folks our your way have been supportive. Burl has been really helpful about the roads and as soon as he tells me that we can get thru, Lew (an old friend, VN Vet and our CPA) and I will be there, probably in a day or two to sort out things.
Still can't believe that Terry's gone. Guess it'll have to slowly sink in. Couldn't handle it if all of it hit at once. love you, Red
Lin, I'm touched by the way Terry has been honored. Dear one, you will remain in my prayers.
We are so glad Red left a comment. We can't thank him enough for being there and coming to help out. We would like to thank Red and Sally personally for being such good, loving friends and appreciate his comment about Terry.
Sue & Judy
I'm glad you posted. You and I, we've been able to chat every day, but there are so many people out there that care for you and Terry and I know they are relieved to see your written words.
I'm glad Red will arrive shortly. You WILL be back, changed, a part of your heart remaining, but with small feathered cobwebs in the corners, visible even in the sun, but still beating in memory for what you two shared.
Brigid
Well, after three false starts (everything I wrote seemed lame) I'll just say I'm glad you posted, Lin. Take good care of yourself, and my thoughts remain with you.
Peace and Strength.
Just wanted to let you know I came by again. Margie
L
I have a new computer as of two days ago; just got the email function working last night late, will transfer email addies when I can, wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. Send me an email at the regular address so if I don't figure out the tech stuff for transfer I'll have you on the new box. Bought an HP with Vista with Service Pack 1. Rebates, dealer only a mile from the house. All the bad rep Vista has I feel like the penguin who's been kicked off the ice floe by the other penguins to see if there are any predators in the water.
LOVE
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You take the time you need. We'll still come round every now and then to see how you're doing. You're in our prayers!
Hi Lin, I think about you every day. There are so many people who care about you. We're all here to support you. xxx
There's nothing, really, to add. Except for one sure thing. We have been busy digging an arroyo, building a dam and placing sandbags. The creek will NOT rise, Lin. Call us when you're ready.
Lin, I miss you. I hope you are okay. You never leave my thoughts for very long. {{{HUGS}}}
Good luck Lin, with everything you have to do.
lin I wish you all the luck and good fortune possible in your time of need.
I just read about Mark/Terry's death. I am so sorry. Although I don't know you in person, I've been enjoying your blog for some time now. Please take care and know that you have my deepest sympathy.
Came to check on you. Still thinking about you. Margie
sorry to hear about the loss of a friend. Life is short and too short regrdless of age....
You are right-live life to the full and do not miss a moment...
Still thinking of you, keeping you in my heart and prayers. We'll be here if you need us.
Still thinking about you. Margie
Hang in there, and I too would choose a more cool regular name than the one my parents stuck onto me, like Steve, or Mark - hell even David.
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