Pre-Ramble: Rat life is pretty darned good at the moment. The plumbing is holding up (both in and out), the propane man made it in last week just before the roads went bad. Saw the first traffic in a week when Hondo stopped by (he deserves a post to himself someday soon). He had been out checking his well run and his truck looked more mud brown than anything.
Later, I glanced out the window yesterday and saw what first looked like a small Willys-type Jeep. The closer it got, the stranger it looked. Then we saw a collection of dogs and a black cowboy hat inside of it. It was Slim, arriving like the Cavalry with a case of beer in the back end. With neighbors like that, could you want for better? He had been running and repairing the fence lines in preparation for his next load of cattle to arrive and thought to make the extra five miles to our place in the process. He stayed for several hours of socializing before heading back. I just wish that he had given me some warning; I could have thawed out a great early supper. I suspect he figures that goods meals only occur well after dark around here and he wasn't about to stay out that late in an open cabbed vehicle and drive home freezing and half in the bag over roads he was so glad he didn't abuse his truck on. We couldn't fault him on that either.
So why didn't I get photos of our visitors? Mark and I talked about that after they all left. It obviously comes from my own dislike of having my photo taken. I just presume that everyone else feels the same way. I will have to force myself to ask them for the privilege some time and see how they feel about it. They are certainly a very important part of our life out here.
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On to today's post: "Dang fool". This is the first part of a random and happenstance series on what we left behind. This is an important part of the 'leave it all behind' process that we all have to deal with in this circumstance.
Now read this quote from an early sixties program:
Jed Clampett: Pearl, what d'ya think? Think I oughta move?
Cousin Pearl: Jed, how can ya even ask? Look around ya. Yer eight miles from yer nearest neighbor. Yor overrun with skunks, possums, coyotes, bobcats. Ya use kerosene lamps fer light and ya cook on a wood stove summer and winter. Yer drinkin' homemade moonshine and washin' with homemade lye soap. Yor bathroom is fifty feet from the house and you ask "should I move?"
Jed: I reckon yor right. A man'd be a dang fool to leave all this!
"The Beverly Hillbillies" c. early 1960s
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I was very young when I heard those lines but something about them stayed with me forever after. It was a story about a hillbilly who (unlike us) had mineral rights and subsequent sudden wealth. While Mark and I never had great wealth from being in the right place at the right time, we had persevered and developed a comfortable home while still accruing some savings. What's enjoyably ironic is that we are now pursuing a reverse Jed Clampett scenario. For a decade and a half previously, we had pursued a 'no debt' objective and now it was paying off. My ever-ending rehab of the past few houses had yielded gains and we were on our way ... downwards, in the eyes of many. It was a good thing that we never followed the bleating crowds or we never would have made it. We don't live as primitively as Jed by a long shot but many would think so. The standard perception is that we had something to lose and did so. Did we really? I mean really? Prior to this, we dealt with long commutes, theft and vandalism from scum (those poor little victims of society), municipal restrictions and enforcement, neighbors and acquaintances who most often fell short of returning our assistance and generosity and HIGH taxes to support this 'privilege'.
So, how willing are you to give up your conveniences for a greater degree of autonomy and freedom? Can you still free your hand from the philosophical monkey trap by letting go of your fist-full of immediate comforts? It's harder than you might think. Unless you earned your money the old-fashioned way - by inheriting it from dear mumsy and dadda, you have to plan a long way ahead and remain dedicated to your goal. The prime outlands may be under siege from trust fund slugs but we everyday folks can still get our licks in if we plan ahead with determined and genuine intent. What are you waiting for?
So here begins the 'dang fool' series. If your sitting in relative comfort on the grid, I don't want to hear any accusations of whining; such numb-nutted thought-free sound bites will only anger me immensely. If you are interested in pursuing a similar goal, this series will benefit you in understanding these pressures and dilemmas.
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Here is the place we left behind. It is a rambling 3 level 120+ year old farmhouse which we spent 12 years restoring. It was fun, challenging and an awesome place to call home. It was our pinnacle of residential comfort and achievement.. .
Tah-dah!!! The Rat!
Take two independent people going from over 3,000 square feet of living space plus a barn with over 4600 square feet of room for work shops, vehicle toys and 'stuff' and jam them into a 910 square foot rat trailer 24/7 for two years. Do the math; you'd both better enjoy each other's company in every way before attempting this. And you both better be able to see and appreciate the benefits from doing so. Still worth it? Put yourself in our shoes and decide.
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24 comments:
Hi Lin. Hi to Mark, too. And your very smart cats and dogs.
Got to make a remark. Just gotta. You wrote "The plumbing is holding up (both in and out)"
I can't help but be enthralled by the information on your body's interior status, but should you be telling Google about it?
Oh, yeah, that mansion house. Who wants to climb all those stairs?
Have fun where you are. Your values are in the right places.
Cat, I'm not THAT old (yet) that my internal plumbing is the forever subject of the blog. Issues of regularity will come along soon enough, I gather, but I'm not rushing the parade!
You're right - I don't miss the stairs, especially the spiral that I did the splits down once. I learned to respect the inside decreased radius of those steps in a hurry and was impressed that one heel could kick me in the back of the head so easily when the other foot landed 4 feet down from its last step. Now that's worth telling Google about.
Can you still free your hand from the philosophical monkey trap by letting go of your fist-full of immediate comforts? It's harder than you might think.
I can...and WILL... second the "it's harder than you think" bits. Still and even, NO regrets. But divesting myself of property and "stuff" WAS one of the hardest things I've ever done, especially my books and music. There are "other things" as well, but on the whole I'm in complete agreement witcha, Lin.
The Old Sod is quite the impressive manse! That said, I know you and Mark are happier...even considering the considerable trials, tribulations, and tests-of-will you guys are going through. I remain envious.
My question is, that house had to be full of "stuff". What the hell did you do with it all? If I could have a sale and get rid of 90% of the stuff I've collected over the years, I'd love to get rid of it all and move into a little "Unabomber shack" on the edge of a national park somewhere. What stops me, among other things, is the thought of how I'd make a living out there, and all the comforts... great places to eat, movies, things to do, friends, that I'd miss. I admire you guys for doin' it, but I don't know if I could, just yet.
Watchin' you guys do it is both an encouragement and a sobering wake-up. It's too damn easy for me to call a plumber here. Not sure what the hell I'd do out there. Have to shit in a hole and cover it like a cat.
I think you made a great trade.
I am now awaiting the story of the splits down the stairs. Sounds a little disjointed.
My dream is about having a half subterranian dome built, off the grid, with a big fire pit in the middle of the great room, with it's own water system and power. It'll cost me, but maybe one day.
Your home was beautiful. I love all the trees surrounding it. Makes it all look so peaceful.
I'd love to be out and alone with my husband like you are, but I'd have to do it in a wooded area. Our "forty acres," as he calls it:)
Ok, I'm going to be nosy: what does propane cost? Is it expensive like natural gas?
Buck, I was tempted to mention that you had already done so and survived quite admirably. Giving away his sound system and music was also the hardest part for Mark. If he had to give up his books, too, he would have just given up the ghost, I think.
Mark burst out laughing when he looked at the two house photos posted here. That's a good sign. Guess we won't be turning back any time soon.
FHB, you wouldn't believe how full that house AND the barn was. Paring down is something you should never do all at once but start a year or two before. I should write a post on how NOT to do it since we covered those bases fully. Making a living is definitely the tough part but easier now with the internet. Heck, you could write a history course or text book to keep some bucks coming in as well. Start looking for income opps now while you have plenty of time to think about it.
Unlike our place, there are hideaways out there that are much closer to the eateries and social life. If you're too close, you can blow a lot of money in bars and restaurants though. You never really lose touch with good friends and the rare reunions are even more special than.
Thanks, Moose!
It amazed me that I didn't do some serious damage by slipping down that spiral staircase. Then I almost killed myself later while roosting on the upper railing. That one inspired a complete rework of the top entrance to it. Sure looked cool though.
FHB, the semi-subterranean architecture would save you some big bucks on heating and cooling. Rick the Welder wanted us to build into these cliffs and that would have been energy saving, too, but these particular formations are not that stable. He sent us the e-Bay URL for a cliff cave house in Missouri. It was so awesome it wasn't funny.
Goddess, I really do miss the trees (although not the leaf patrol in the Fall). Some of the oaks were over a hundred years old and we had 65 foot blue spruce shielding us from the road and neighbors. It was as private as you could get and still be 'in town'. But 'in town' got real old regardless. You'll probably get a kick out of what we did to that place over a dozen years when I drag out the photos.
The propane; lemme think here. The tanker left us 320 gallons this time at $2.45 per gallon. That was up from $1.45 (ouch!) for the previous fill-up in mid-September (so 320 gals for roughly five months).
We exclusively use propane for heating, cooking AND refrigeration so, given the amount of sub-zero weather we've had, that's doesn't seem too bad. We did a lot of insulating and tightening up. I don't know how the previous owners could have afforded to heat the place as it was.
J.Paul Getty:"The meek shall inherit the earth....but not it's mineral rights." LOL!
Oooh, you heat with propane. Most people who I've known use it for cooking only, I didn't even realize you COULD heat with it! Well, it's cheaper than earl, cuz that's running $2.99 a gallon right now. It's about the same cost as kerosene though.
Goddess, some landowners do own the mineral rights in the region and the juicy irony of it is that they can afford to haul the gas field into court and often DO! grin
OMG, $2.99 a gallon! That's a big OUCH! Yeah, kerosene for heaters isn't cheap and you don't dare use the stuff at the gas station or the additives will kill ya.
Most any natural gas appliance can be re-jetted to run on propane, same for natural gas-fired furnaces. The Rat had a regular full-size furnace which was re-jetted to run on propane but we don't have full-time electricity to run the blower. If you have natural gas available in your locale, that is really the best choice. If you don't change over, at least lock-in/buy your oil in the summer.
I came from a trailer existence and although Judy lived in a house, our trailer was much better.
We are happy where we are and I suppose we continue to need all the distractions to keep us together.
I do not envy you and your rat, 'cause I know what it's like, but I am somewhat envious of your privacy and surroundings, but I could never do without my mountains and trees for very long.
When I look at the "rat" photos, my eye is drawn to the hillside and I wonder what's up there and what could I see from up there.
Hey, Mushy! You know, the Rat's getting better all the time. I just wish I would finish off some rooms to be able to show everyone ... hard to yell at the contractor when it's yourself though.
You've got a gorgeous place with a decent amount of privacy and wonderful trees. I'd find that hard to leave behind, too. Maybe you need to snowbird out this way for part of the winter (at least parts where the temps are warmer).
It's 300 feet to the top of that mesa behind us and what you can see from up there blows me away. If you go all the way to the top, it's like a completely different world. You'll see what I mean when I hike your butts up there - it's really awesome.
Hi Lin, this should be an interesting series of posts. The key, I believe, lies in your last paragraph. I know I've asked you this before but I forget the answer. If you did not have Mark with you and were completely on your own would you be living in a trailer in the middle of nowhere all by yourself?
I don't like anyone well enough to be in your lifestyle so I know up front that I would be terribly lonely. I like living in the middle of everything.
It is fun reading about your adventures, though. Keep them coming.
That's a very good question, Babzy. If I was single with LOTS of bucks, I would still like to live out in the boonies but maybe not quite this far out by myself. Word can get around quick and there are plenty of whackos out there. I'd probably invite a pensioner or two to come live out there rent-free just to have someone near-by.
My last round of propane was $1.95/gal, also up almost a full dollar from 3 months prior to! Natural gas is, indeed, the better deal. Of course, you have to have access---DUH!!!
I still like living in "semi-reclusiveness", but it, too, is disappearing faster than I care to admit. Once the city limits take over my little 10-acre wooded area, I'll be forced into parting with it. That many acres inside of city limits---the tax base alone would "kill" me in the first year, at least by Missouri statutes...
Bruno, a $1.95 and even that was up a buck from the last refill? I'm feeling just a little reamed here! But we noticed that the ream factor was well in place, including the price of gas and diesel ... because they can, of course. There's this growing monopoly of supply in the region and no one seems to notice.
I'm kind of worried about you getting swallowed up by the encroaching town. Is it time to sell out to developers and leap frog to the next EBF? May be time to 'head west, young man'. We so wanted to do this in Missouri but realized that even a 100 Mo. acres wasn't enough to keep development off our backs long enough.
I never doubted for a minute that it was a massive trade-off in a lot of ways. I think with your ability to connect with this social group, in a way, you've got the best of both worlds.
Your old house was a gorgeous place, but I'll bet the upkeep on that alone was a big job in itself.
with a backyard as incredible as what you have, there's no doubt you did the right thing. With a huge house, you're a slave to it. I once traded a 4000 foot custom home in southern Cal for a small farmhouse on forty acres with my own runway and enough money at the end of the month to pay for the Super Cub. A lot less stress I can tell you.
Phlegmmy, you're EXACTLY right! While we had the perfect house for entertaining, we found but a couple who did not let us down as friends in the end. Now with this blog, in a sixth of the time I have sextupled the amount of people I adore associating with AND I don't have to deal with the rest. Now if only I could have done this fifteen years ago ...
LinM, sounds like you made a far better choice, too, especially if it involved getting out of Cal.! We looked at one ranch that had an old airstrip on it. It would have been great for a flyer like you. It was a lot of land for what So.Cal prices would have yielded for you, too. sigh
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